When either the server or client are lacking hardware support for
AES-GCM ciphers, indicated by the server lacking the relevant
instructions and by the client not putting AES-GCM ciphers at the top
of its preference list, reorder the preference list to de-prioritize
AES-GCM based ciphers when they are adjacent to other AEAD ciphers.

Also updates a number of recorded openssl TLS tests which previously
only specified TLS 1.2 cipher preferences (using -cipher), but not
TLS 1.3 cipher preferences (using -ciphersuites), to specify both
preferences, making these tests more predictable.

Fixes #41181.

Change-Id: Ied896c96c095481e755aaff9ff0746fb4cb9568e
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/262857


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